Pros and Cons

PRO - I found somebody I'm crazy about.
CON - He lives in another country
PRO - He lives in another country
CON - I refuse to have long distance relationships.
PRO - If he lives far away, he doesn't know what I'm doing here.
CON - But I like him too much to date other people.
PRO - He wants to move here to be with me.
CON - He's probably using me to get a Green Card.
PRO - I get to live with someone I care about.
CON - I have to actually live with someone.
PRO - He's European, with all the European charm that implies.
CON - I have to worry that he's European and charming, and other women, like me, will fall for it.
PRO - He claims to want a serious relationship.
CON - He wants a serious relationship?!
PRO - He tells me he loves me.
CON - People think I'm a fool when I tell them he loves me because he's probably only using me to get a Green Card.
PRO - People don't know I've been a fool for much longer than this guy has been around.
CON - I think I'm crazy for wanting to believe him.
PRO - But I believe him anyway.
CON - This will never work out in the end.
PRO - I'll have good blogging material and can post my humiliation for the world to read. And that's all that really matters in life.